Aryan is going through a phase when he just wants things to be done in his own way and he becomes VERY VERY aggressive when when we say NO or scold him for something. Its becoming increasingly difficult for us to handle him. This saturday was one of those bad days when he was too excited and which means he was misbehaving way too much and I was angry and irritated.
So during the day we had many sessions , when I told him that I am angry and I won't talk to him and he came and said sorry and then repeated the same old stuff. Once he got too angry to bang a toy on my head and got a slap from his papa.
But this post is not about his behaviour but what happened after that.
His nanu called up and he came running to talk to nanu. He spoke continously to him for 15 minutes(he never speaks more than 2-3 minutes usually) in a low tone and when I asked phone he did not give me but cut it. So nanu called again and he spoke again for 5 mins and said okay bye and cut the phone.
I knew he was telling about day's events but did not know what was my papa speaking from other side.
So later in the night I called him up (since we were not able to speak) and he told me that Aryan told him that we scolded him and hit him. And when he asked Aryan , "Swati hai , Anupam hai" , he told that , "Dono hai , baat nahi karni".
And after that we got good scolding for scolding and hitting him.
So the other side of story was not even heard :( You tell me , is this court not biased ?
So during the day we had many sessions , when I told him that I am angry and I won't talk to him and he came and said sorry and then repeated the same old stuff. Once he got too angry to bang a toy on my head and got a slap from his papa.
But this post is not about his behaviour but what happened after that.
His nanu called up and he came running to talk to nanu. He spoke continously to him for 15 minutes(he never speaks more than 2-3 minutes usually) in a low tone and when I asked phone he did not give me but cut it. So nanu called again and he spoke again for 5 mins and said okay bye and cut the phone.
I knew he was telling about day's events but did not know what was my papa speaking from other side.
So later in the night I called him up (since we were not able to speak) and he told me that Aryan told him that we scolded him and hit him. And when he asked Aryan , "Swati hai , Anupam hai" , he told that , "Dono hai , baat nahi karni".
And after that we got good scolding for scolding and hitting him.
So the other side of story was not even heard :( You tell me , is this court not biased ?
hahaha..ab main kya boloon..you should have learn't by now to not to complain to grandparents at all. Its just futile. In fact it mostly backfires :D
ReplyDeleteLOL! that's so cute! well, I think NM has put it very aptly, I can't add anything else to it. :)
ReplyDeleteyes, it is this age, where they test our patience to the limits. And, i don't wantt o scare you , but take it easy, as it will not change for a while. I don#t see any improvements in Rishab. But, with time and some thinking i ave figured out some ways in some situations to stay patient and turn the table. You really need to be smart for that, as todays children are way too smart. :D
well even my parents think Cubby can do NO wrong!! hhrrmmppff!
ReplyDeletehugs to you! :D
cheers!
abha
Lol......it's the same story with all grandparents.
ReplyDeletelol!!! grandparents court can never be fair to parents.. and i have one live in my house so i know what it means and they take so much advantage of that... if i tell anything to Ojas he just goes running to his dadi... sigh
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