Lets see ..
Every morning I have lot of trouble waking him up. Morning hours are way to stressful for both Anupam and me. Wake him up , push him to bathroom by hook or crook. Make him ready , rush to car. Feed him breakfast in the car and then drop him to the school , just in time and sometimes late by few minutes. Being late can be attributed to Aryan or traffic and that depends.
At the school when we drop him there are multiple kinds of behaviour and thats perfectly his choice. I don't remember dates , but witness some of his days :
Day K : We talk on the way :
Me : "Aryan why do you cry at school, school mein maza aata hai na"
Aryan : "Haan"
Me : "Then"
Aryan : "Mumma papa saath , car jana hai"
Day X : As the car stops at school he says to himself , "Ab cry karna hai" (Now I have to cry)
Huh ..is that a custom now ? Is what I think:-P
Day A(happens to be monday): On a friday night he tells me that "Aryan kal school cry nahi karega"
(Aryan will not cry at school from tomorrow)
Cool ..why the hell its a friday ..GRRR ..me think :P
Anyway , he doesnot cry on THE monday and tuesday and say a bye with a sad smile.
WOW ..me think
Damn the school closes for swine fear for a week.
Day Y(School opens after swine fear) : Again a bye !!
Yippe ..me thinks
Day Z(We reached late to school) : While I am talking and explaining why we are late , he bursts into tears :(
Day B(Yesterday) : On the way he says "Aryan cry karega" and he does.
Day C (Today) : On the way, in the car we speak ,
Me: "Aryan school mein maza aata hai na "
Aryan : "Haan"
Me : "Aryan aap cry nahi karoge na"
Aryan : "Aryan cry karega"
Me : "Kyo , cry karna acha lagta hai"
Aryan : "Haan" (spots his school's lane) "I-card lagao, school aa gaya"
Me : (putting the I-card) "Ok , then cry loudly"
Aryan : "Nooo , shout nahi karte" (spots school buiding) "Bag taango , school aa gaya"
And he goes off , crying but not shouting :-P
In the evenings , he has loads of stories to tell , from how they played on slide , what they ate , what they painted , how they excercised , what did his teacher wear , who came and who did not , which poem he learnt etc etc and he communicates all of that in parts and pieces just before bed :)
Now ..do you get the answer..please let me know if you did :-P